Right from the start, I knew she was different. There was an inner strength about her that drew me in. Genuine love. A smile from deep beyond the surface. One that seemed to come from an overflow of authentic joy.
If you were to meet her, you wouldn’t guess the challenges and heartache she’d faced.
… Or maybe you would.
Because people don’t end up the good kind of different by living challenge-free.
Usually, it’s those who have faced the deepest challenges of life who live with the deepest levels of inner strength and authentic joy. It’s the pain of yesterday empowering them for tomorrow.
They have allowed God to work amidst the pain to make them
and more compassionate.
Friends, none of us stand in line to receive the challenges of life. Yet what kind of people would we be today without them?None of us stand in line to receive the challenges of life. Yet what kind of people would we be today without them? #innerstrength #overcomer #hope #MomentsofHope Click To Tweet
“When a woman gives birth, she has a hard time, there’s no getting around it. But when the baby is born, there is joy in the birth. This new life in the world wipes out memory of the pain. The sadness you have right now is similar to that pain, but the coming joy is also similar. When I see you again, you’ll be full of joy, and it will be a joy no one can rob from you. You’ll no longer be so full of questions. John 16:21-23 MSG
Looking back to my own past, I see where pain that once nearly destroyed me has become the glue of my inner strength today. That pain lead me to experience the all-encompassing love and redemption of God. You see, it was when I came to the end of me that I truly called out to Him.
At my lowest, as the world seemed to say I was a mess and unworthy of accomplishing the dreams of my heart, I met Jesus in a way I never had before. He stepped in and pulled me out of my mess, teaching me who I am – in Him.
And He began constructing the deepened layers of my inner strength.
But what happens if we don’t seek Jesus for our healing? What happens if bitterness takes root?
In his book, Sometimes You Win Sometimes You Learn, John Maxwell says,
“Everyone experiences loss, but not everyone learns from it.”
He explains that learning is something that happens when we make the intentional and disciplined effort to evaluate our losses. In the same book, Coach John Wooden (a favorite in the Schumaker house because, well … basketball and the Schumaker’s? It’s kinda BIG!) wrote in the foreword,
“There is a marked difference between the people who learn from their losses and the people who do not. Do you want your spirit stuck in the infirmary, too battle-weary for another try? Or do you want to seize the opportunity to study, evaluate, and reconsider what happened – and use that knowledge to arm yourself for another charge at life?”
When we look betrayal in the eye and say, “I will grow from this,” we disarm the powers of darkness and defeat the intent of the betrayer. We rise as victors who keep hope alive. And we believe that on the other side of this hurt lies a healed heart and a newfound joy.When we look betrayal in the eye and say -I will grow from this -we disarm the powers of darkness and defeat the intent of the betrayer. #innerstrength #redeemer #hope #overcomer Click To Tweet
So how do we get to that place of bravery?
For me, it was diligence. Intentionality. Engaging deeply in His word. Reading. Counseling. Support. And lots of tears. But, friends I made it to the other side and so did the friend I mentioned before. We found the victory of inner strength.
I know you can make it there, too.
You can make it to where the view is clear. Where you can see the other side of hurt and gain wisdom, inner strength, and compassion. Your story and learnings are unique. However, I believe there are some powerful lessons that may just be common to us all. They are statements of strength. Ones to speak boldly over your life.
So, read these statements of strength. But not quietly to yourself. Read them out loud – with boldness. Really! I’m not joking! Go in another room if you have to, but do it!
Did you? Did you read them boldly read them aloud?
Didn’t those statements sound STRONG? Empowering? Filled with HOPE?
Friends, this list is just the beginning. I know you are warriors and have walked through deep waters of hurt gathering lessons and insights far beyond what I have here. I would love for you to share more in the comments below. Your story – your particular insight – may just be the one God uses to speak into the life of another.
Dear Jesus, Your promises are numerous and never unfulfilled. You love us beyond measure and promise to work all things together for the good of those who love You. Therefore we know that You will take our pain, our hurt, the betrayals that have threatened to stop us in our tracks, and work them together for a good. Lord, we ask You to be our strength and our wisdom as we walk through to the other side of this situation. Walk us through until we see the other side of the hurt. Until we see things clearly, learn lessons, and develop the inner strength You will use to make us who You want us to be. In Your Precious Name, I pray. Amen.
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When People Hurt You: Rising Above the Emotional Pain of Rejection and Betrayal is a series that looks into the Word of God as a guide to not just surviving, but rising victoriously over hurt. Each week I address a new aspect of rejection and betrayal that serves to keep us stuck in the pain rather than moving forward to where we want to be. (If you missed a post, then you can get caught up HERE or click on an image below!)
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This week I want to share with you a group of blogging buddies and real life friends! Last year we all met here in Arizona for a retreat. The weekend was a soul revival and one I will never forget! During one of our brainstorming sessions, we came up with an idea for the summer we decided to call the “Summer Sizzle Series”. It was a collaboration of all our most popular posts shared on each other’s sites over the summer months.
This year, I wasn’t able to join in on the fun, but I wanted to make sure to pass this treasure chest of summer reading onto YOU! Over the next several weeks, you can stop at any one of the nine sites listed and tap into this awesome series. I challenge you to meet each and every one of these gals. And friends, I can promise you, these ladies are as sincere, kind, and wise as you see in print. They are sisters in Christ – ones I couldn’t imagine doing this life without ♥
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